Our First Year Working Toward Off-Grid: What We Got Wrong
Our biggest early mistakes weren't dramatic — underestimating water storage, overplanting before we'd built the systems to use a big harvest, and rushing fencing decisions we later had to redo.
We started Holly's Homestead partly to document this honestly, mistakes included — not just the parts that look good from the outside. Here's what actually tripped us up early on, in case it saves someone else the same detour.
We rushed the fencing, and paid for it twice
Keen to get moving, we put up a first round of fencing based on our plans at the time. Those plans changed within a few months as we learned more about what we actually wanted to keep where — and a chunk of that first fencing had to come down and be redone. The lesson wasn't "plan perfectly before touching a post hole," because that's not realistic either. It was: build the parts you're genuinely certain about first, and leave more flexibility than feels comfortable in the areas you're still deciding on.
We overplanted before we'd built the systems to use it
Our first proper vegetable season, enthusiasm ran ahead of planning. We grew far more zucchini and tomatoes than we could eat fresh — which sounds like a good problem, until you realise you don't yet have a reliable preserving routine, storage space, or the time carved out to process a genuine glut before it turns. A fair amount went to waste that first year, which stung more than we expected. Now we plan preserving and storage capacity at the same time as the planting, not as an afterthought once the harvest is already piling up on the bench.
We underestimated water, and it caught up with us mid-summer
Our first tank felt like plenty when we installed it in cooler months. By the peak of summer, between the garden, the animals, and the household, we were running closer to the edge than we were comfortable with. We've since upsized, and it's the single infrastructure decision we'd tell anyone starting out to size generously from the beginning — it's a much smaller job to install the right capacity once than to add more later.
What we'd tell ourselves on day one
Slow down more than feels natural. The excitement to get everything moving at once is real and understandable, but the homesteads that actually last are the ones built in a sensible order — water and fencing first, then the systems to actually use what you grow, then scaling up plant and animal numbers once the infrastructure can genuinely support them. We're still learning this ourselves, honestly, and we'll keep writing about it as we go.